“Never permit a dichotomy to rule your life.”-Pablo Picasso

The gravity of this statement made by this 19th/20th century icon cannot possibly be measured. Pair it with this quote from an unknown source, “What you allow is what will continue,” and perhaps you can begin to build the foundation of understanding of HerDichotomy. You and only you are aware of the battle you have with yourself every day. We oscillate between the feelings of “I’m sailing through these waters!” and “I can barely keep my head above these waters.” No matter where you feel you are on that spectrum on any given day, don’t let those contradictions rule you. No feeling should ever define you. Feelings lie. We have the ability to acknowledge our inner duality & henceforth become very intentional about throwing our hands up in surrender, allowing God to fuse the broken pieces of our heart—our soul—back together again.